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divalicious
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# Posted: 7 Nov 2007 00:23 - Edited by: divalicious
I have thought about this for months now, and have decided that I need to take a break from a few things.
How do I do this? I am so used to being the type of gal to keep busy and am constantly thinking of what to do next.
Sorry if your sick of hearing about this, but ever since my mom had her heart attack back on September 3rd (thank God she is okay and on her way back to full recovery), it's been eye opening.
I know what should be important right now.
Not that I am giving up on scrapbooking or anything, that's not it. Just maybe not being around as much.
(Am enjoying doing happy layouts right now using lots of bright colours, that makes me feel good. :) So doing layouts etc, is still going to be giving me tons of joy. And am loving to do challenge blog layouts etc)
This is not going to be easy to do, as I told you I have to be busy and love to get involved in things. I still will I am sure. But I just didn't want anyone to wonder where I have gone or anything.
I'll still be around.
Guess I just needed to talk about how I'm feeling right now.
I had blood tests yesterday, and got a call from my dr's office that my dr wants to have a follow up appt. It's NOT URGENT he says, but dang I have to wait til next Friday the 16th to see him. So yea I am trying not to worry, but you know how that goes.
Anyways I might regret even writing about this, but I know you all will understand and maybe can give me some advice.
How can I relax and take it easy?
I am not the type, lol.
Anyways thanks for letting me get this out.
Let me assure you I will still be around. I couldn't leave SIS! :)
Thanks.
*Kellie
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tallynt
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# Posted: 7 Nov 2007 01:27 - Edited by: tallynt
Hi Kellie -
So I was reading your post and wanted to give you some support. Sometimes you need to do stuff just for yourself and focus on yourself. It's important to our well-being.
I am here for you
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droutt
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# Posted: 7 Nov 2007 01:30
so sorry about your hardships right now, sometimes life sucks!
i don't know if i'm qualified to give advice but when i'm feeling down painting in my art journals and listening to classical music or something soothing helps me. or some type of mini escape the beach, the bookstore, etc.
hope things work out.
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tallynt
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# Posted: 7 Nov 2007 01:39 - Edited by: tallynt
oops - my post was on the wrong thread. Still here for you though. =)
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trace
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# Posted: 7 Nov 2007 08:29
I just wanted to say ((((hugs)))) and we're all here for you vent anytime.
hang in there, think positive and do what feels right in your heart.
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cricket
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# Posted: 7 Nov 2007 08:32
Hey Kellie! I totally get what your feeling. I took a break last year and it felt really good...in fact, it helped me recharge. I think we all need to step back sometimes and just focus on ourselves, what makes us happy, rest, etc..and when you are ready, you'll be able to decide just what it is that you want to pour your energies into and what you don't..
hugs to you!!
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prairieWillow
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# Posted: 7 Nov 2007 08:54
kellie,
I can totally relate to you right now.
just do what you need to and we will be here when you need us.
deanna
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scrapprincess2002
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# Posted: 7 Nov 2007 11:50
you have to do what you feel is right for you and not worry will still be here when you are ready to get back to it I to have taken breaks its good to do other things and have other experiences helps you grow as a person and an artist I think there is a saying for this very thing just can't remeber it my sometimers is kicking in.......
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luvmonkey
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# Posted: 7 Nov 2007 12:56
sometimes NO is the hardest word to say! cammeron and i formed a support group for this reason! hahaha its good to just take a step back and ask yourself "is this really important? is this gonna matter 5-10yrs from now? do i even really want to do this or do i just feel obligated to?" it has helped me a million times over im tellin ya....you just have to do whats right for you :)
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Tracy
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# Posted: 7 Nov 2007 13:31
Aw, take care! You know the SISters are here for you. Maybe you just need a good db and some scrap therapy.
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divalicious
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# Posted: 7 Nov 2007 21:20
Thanks girls. I really appreciate your support.
Still going to be scrapbooking etc. :)
need a good db and some scrap therapy.
Sorry what does DB mean?
I think I have a few layouts that need to be done for therapy, so going to get to that as well.
Again thank you!
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Tracy
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# Posted: 7 Nov 2007 23:57
Oh, sorry! Deep Breath. Deeeeeeep Breath. It'll be ok. ;)
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divalicious
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# Posted: 8 Nov 2007 00:08
Oh, sorry! Deep Breath. Deeeeeeep Breath. It'll be ok. ;)
Thanks for explaining that. :)
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Emine
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# Posted: 8 Nov 2007 02:47
Aw honey. sorry to hear that you are not feeling okay.
I think the best way is to keep posting here about your feelings. We are all here for you. If you need to talk to someone you know you can always email me ;)
big HUGS
Emine
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allmw627
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# Posted: 10 Nov 2007 11:19
Kellie~
Just remember to breathe.
You need to do what makes YOU happy. Don't worry about anything else.
Thinking of you!
Anna
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alohi
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# Posted: 10 Nov 2007 17:07
Sometimes you need to do stuff just for yourself and focus on yourself.
i agree... it's impossible to give your best to others if you yourself is not at your best to begin with. i hope things get better for you.
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Scrapologist
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# Posted: 10 Nov 2007 19:56
Hey Kellie! I totally get what your feeling. I took a break last year and it felt really good...in fact, it helped me recharge. I think we all need to step back sometimes and just focus on ourselves, what makes us happy, rest, etc..and when you are ready, you'll be able to decide just what it is that you want to pour your energies into and what you don't..
I totally agree with Cricket. A very dear friend taught me how to say "No" nicely. You might want to practice on your kids/dh first but you say "I'm sorry, that's not going to work for me". You don't need an explanation, you don't have to justify your decision to the person....try it, it works!
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divalicious
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# Posted: 10 Nov 2007 20:35
Thanks gals. :)
I really have a hard time to just relax. Uh huh I don't have a job, yet, but even still I have to be doing something during the day. My mind is always racing with thoughts etc.
And now I am busy yet again with projects, but they are things I WANT to be doing. :)
I think I just needed to talk about how I felt about my mom, it really scared me when she had her heart attack, and I am so blessed she has a 2nd chance.
I spend lots of time with her, go for walks, etc. We are extremely close.
Thanks again, gotta make dinner. :)
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